Observation is very
funny thing to do when you're alone, you keep staring at someone or something
and all your face makes some funny grin !! I am used to observe people around
me a lot, well being a crazy Sherlock fan I deduce things out of them. You observe the photo someone has already taken, and I
observe the scene before taking the photo. Just a small difference that makes
me write this article and makes you read the same one ! Observation is
not power nor some illusion. Sometimes it's just the way you sum up these
things, you have seen in a most elegant
yet intelligent way. When you love
someone by all your heart you become an observer, you remember and notice all
sort of things about that person. A single like on Facebook page can deduce the
taste of that person. When you've to remember something in a moment of time period
you become an observer. You find out relative ways to remember those things.
When you've a meeting with a person you don't know but you start observing
everything, that makes his/her first impression last. By this article you can
observe my pattern of writing and by writing you can observe my pattern of
thoughts and by thoughts you can deduce what type of person I'm. See this way
the chain works. You look over my keyboard and if you notice that one ruddy key
out of others you might know I use the "E" the most out of all 26
letters. Easy to raise the probability because 'five vowels' are the most used
to written down any word. It's that
simple and it's that complicated if you cross the line between
"Observation" and "Judgmental" .
While writing all
sort of this stuff I'm here in Joggers park, people walk around and act like
they know all about running and sweating. They
try to show what they are not.
But who's paying attention? They feel like everyone is spamming on them.
But everyone around them feels the same bullshit. But do you think anyone
cares? There is this man with strong mussels, well structured body and
grey hair. He has this different shoes that attracts me and branded track suit
with some sort of symbol that I don't know. Among all he seems the
professional one, I am behind him trying to copy his movement but Oh God!! he is fast like the train, with this
loving Rhythm! And here all I can deduce
in these 10 seconds of glance is that he is in his mid 30's, and with the short
hair I can say he looks like a military man ! But one more thing that I know
but you don't is there is an NCC camp just outside the jogger's park.
Probability of him being a military man just raised. The shoes that I said is
different, I've seen them on Quora question about Army shoes. Probability
raised more. And I have seen this man number of times doing horse riding in his
uniform. Now it's confirm he is a military man or NCC candidate. But you see,
you just can't observe the people and deduce them this far, you ought to know
the surrounding that revolves around you. The street where you live, the
landmark you've remember to know the road that takes you to that street, you
need to pay the detail orientation where you live and from where you pass, to
observe and to deduce. It's a big deal to live
in this surrounding and not to know it.
Then there is this
lady, in her mid 35! Short but very fast. I see her, here everyday since I used
to come here in joggers around 2013! She runs a small beauty parlor! How I know
? By looking at her ? By deducing that she is pretty and she can hide her age
very well? No I just asked her during a short conversation. Know the people
with little conversation, who is there
around you from such a long period.
In short observation
is good and powerful and I am doing it! But I'm not judging the old man nor fat
woman who just passed across me, looking at me as I am typing in my mobile
hearing the music! How I know she was looking at me while I was typing, well she
does this everyday with some disguise. I know because I used to notice, she did
because she might be judging me or might not. Nobody cares, just act like they
know some deep shit. There's this line in TV show Mr. Robot : "No one cared who I was until I
put on the mask!" Put the
masks on, and observe the surrounding, you'll find a better world to live.
-Kemil Ghoghari
