Tuesday 16 December 2014

Yaarana

FRIENDS..

Childhood friends who used to share their toys, candies, sweetness!! Then School friends with whom we  used to finish our homework, they are our recess partners  by sharing their Tiffin boxes.. They don’t go to teacher for our silly complaints.. They are our dance partner to our playground partner.. Friendship is all about sharing.. Some of them are used to fight with you.. They are our fighting partner.. Some of them are Compass box partners.. All the time they lost their pen, pencil or eraser and used ours.. Shamelessly later the all stuff is like their Father's properties and used it. Some friendship starer here is like "Harry Potter" trio.. Long last.. Ever and forever!!! Some of them are disappear from our life like Elizabeth and Will Turner from Captain Jack Sparrow's life!! Some of them are still together but it seem like eating PaniPuri no matter how worst it is.. I am eating it because I love it..!!

Sometimes later, at college days, when we live in a state of blissful ignorance, or rather, fool’s paradise.
Friends for treat, fun and vellagiri.. Some friends for last day assignment work.. Room sharing to bike pooling..!! Sharing a cigarette to last piece of wafer or going for a picnic or movie or long drive 3 at the morning just to fill the drizzly-vizzy. Testing new food on the "Lari" is main time pass with Friends. Height of craziness is one will order, rest of them finished it shamelessly and the third one will pay the bill.!! This is what friends do!! Testing a "Bacardi" to eating medicine they will be always with you. Bunking class just to see your favorite movie in the friend's little dirty room thousands of time is what friends are used to do. Making Maggi and eating from the same dish but later you can't imagine how dirty your kitchen will be..!!  They will sat next to you and clicking your most weird faces that's not enough upload it on Facebook and later tag you like unknown..!! Teasing you with the peak of nonsense jokes and shipping you with your fantasy are their main time pass.. For a friend you are the only chef no matter how worst you cook, you are the only Dr. when one is feeling ill, you are the only photographer to take his/her selfie everywhere, you are the only portable ATM  and if you are the only person in the world they will still fight with you.  They can slap you, irritate you, getting burst out on you  but at the last they love you more than your lover, care for you more than your parents, fight with you more than your sisters/brothers and know you more than you.

At the end we all have some memories .. Spicy, sweet, strong or some of them are lost!! Unfortunately we don't have a memory basin which Dumbledore has!!

Friendship is remembering you today while writing this article, eating your favorite dish and seeing your favorite movie.. Friendship is like Sumrit Sahi's "Just friends" to Sir Arthur Conon Doyle's "Sherlock Holmes and James Watson". It is hidden crush like "Kuchh Kuchh Hota He" to best enemy like "Sadda Hauq" Friendship is tends to some most interesting dialogues like "After all this time Severus!!?? ALWAYS"(Harry Potter) , "Dosti ka ak asul he madam: No sorry no thank you"(Maine Pyar Kiya), "Agar who meri sabse achhi dost nahi ban sakti to me usasse pyar kar hi nahi sakta"(KKHH) and all time favorite "We are Just friends Yaaar".. !!

Friendship  is all about you my dear friends, After all this time.. Love you and Miss you ALWAYS !!

Monday 15 December 2014

5 months of young age

Completed 10 months of Young age..
Originally written (July 13 2014)

Some orthodox but not authentic always irritates me.. Why this can’t happen or why the hell you are not behaving as I imagined you..!! Friends, cousins always remembering me my recent most energetic life of starting of my youth... But now for some of my friends the scenario is changed. The life which was once they used to celebrate as well as freely hook up with friends changed to being a “Mingle”..!!! Fall in love in teenage made them so easy with relationships that patch ups and break ups are like usual in backlog in engineering. This is not like “Its over” they will still sticking there and just carelessly watch their Exes.. I am careless, I am blunt with my own life but I am at least not self-centered.!! Yes I am all like other girls waiting hoping and looking for my Mr. Right... I read somewhere that we will get someone special who we deserve rightly. We always have imagined someone in our dreams of night... After all one said that “I am not single but dam yeah I am night watcher..” Hrithik type body and men like romantic Raj of DDLJ. Always we want what we watch what we heard!! We all are passing from this phase I am not writing a stereotype note for this but the point is when it comes to date someone, to being a one with whom you love is not that of easy..!! just to show off front of your friends, don’t make you any mistake because after you all hurt by your loved one is bring you to the phase from where you will never ever trust anyone..!!
Some of my friends are from orthodox culture.. And age of 21 they start searching their Mr. Right. Going into a room of full of strangers just because they can judge you well?? Oh creepy hell… For me I am enjoying best at the stage of "just started my young life". It’s just a few months of completing my teenage. And no such planning to be with someone for the rest of whole life. I am not giving a stereotype general answer to my parents whenever they start discussing about my marriage with me. “Dad, I want to focus on my carrier rather than my personal life” Nah.. Dad actually I want to stay Ms. Ghoghari till I am seriously satisfied about my young life. I mean what a sticky things to tell a single details about what I am doing to someone and expecting the same!! I am happy with my best friends with my “single life” rather than a relationship with attraction..!!!!
                                         -Kemil Ghoghari