Its all about a Day - Birthday..!!

            Its all about day.. Birthday..!!!  Birthday  night, birthday cake, birthday dress, last but not the least birthday gifts.

            Birth day which you wait, you enjoy, you like, you love.. You mark b'day first on a new calendar and again after it you wait for the next b'day. I have a weird relationship with time. The day I was born and so I celebrate it, the same day always adds one more whole year in my life. Hahaha you know girls don’t like getting older." As God adds years to your life, may he adds life to  years ."

             I am always the one orthodox girl who don't like b'day celebration but things can change, wind changed. My b'day falls in February. Most romantic and fabulous month of the year. Either it is coz of Valentine  or coz of "vasant". It was named after Latin term "februum" which means "purification" held on 15th of February the full moon night. What a perfect and lovable month to born. God always sends angels in this months. As the birthstone of my month is "Amethyst" aka symbolize piety, humility, spiritual wisdom, maturity and sincerity. That's what I am. Ha ha ha ha . I always want uncommon b'day.. 29th of February. But never tried to make my b'day special. I told you how I am. There is always a valentine  day after my b'day and it seems like my friends are more awaiting for that day instead of my b'day even when we were in schools. Funny me.

            so here is a my story, story of my birthday!! 20 years ago there was a dark night and I was born , haha don't worry nothing like filmy ever happen to me. I hope so that one day something like this ever happen to me. Just like Harry I had never had anything to share before or, indeed, anyone to share it with. It was a nice feeling that time I guess. In my childhood I had never any celebration for my birthday. Usually I was the hater. Some of my school friends come to my home and have a bunch of fun. I just miss those simple days. That time there was no WhatsApp nor Facebook so phone never stop ringing. That was the best feeling I ever had. On birthday we feel like celebrities and the one who calls ,asked the most common question "What’s today's plan? Where is the party?" they too know that there were no parties but still relatives  are relatives!! My sweet little brother who is more exited for the birthday , well especially exited for what will he get in return gift from me. First asks me what I want and gave me the idea like to ask for racing car or toy robot or football for birthday gifts!! Hahaha !!My brother so no doubt on his smartness.

            I had spend every of my birthday watching at least one Harry Potter movie. And asking for that same friendship gift to God for my birthday. Finally I got it on my birthday. Best gift ever. And that special gift  gave me Harry Potter book this time on the birthday. Life can not be more awesome and magical !!

             I want to thank to my those college buddies who surprised me with a shock, my school buddies who tried to lit the candles on "Gulab jamuns " the only sweet I like the most and gave me the most hilarious biopic video. Thanks to my those friends who have guts to solve painful past memories just to make my day special. Thanks to those friends who know my book mania and gave me all those books to increase  my own small library collection.  I want to thank you to all who will remain awake till midnight just to wish me. Well very simple, ordinary and not so dramatic day becomes magically fabulous and awesome birthday. Only coz of you my friends & my Bheemu. Thank you ALWAYS..!!   

                                                                                                                                                     -Kemil Ghoghari

       

A Girl With camera (1)

                                    A baby girl, very sweet and cute and lovely by her eyes. She just wants to see the whole world with her tiny little eyes. That time the whole world mean to her as her lovely mother. As she grows up she is with dolls, in her teenage she is with her bicycle and beauty stuffs. In her youth she is with her dreams. Dreams of becoming something in her life, dreams of marriage with a guy who loves her the most. Dreams are those wishes which she wants to fulfil but she doesn't know that the dreams don't become reality through magic!! Years passed and she will with some grocery bags along with her baby girl and so the history repeats!!!

                                     It is tough enough to describe a life cycle of girl or woman because a girl will have all stages of a woman. She is caring mother, messing sister, lovely wife and a best friend even and forever. Sometimes she will give you happiness and making her life boring!! This article is for those who wants to change her/himself. Sometimes the usual routine makes our life boring in this amazing and surprising world.

                                     So I am Maya, your host for this article will show you the untamed history of enjoyment of beautiful life. I am Maya, A girl with Camera. I had broken the boring life cycle chain with my antidotes camera clicks.

                                     I am a new girl in your city. Actually being a new girl in any city without any familiar background, I tried to capture emotions behind those unknown faces with my camera. Showing colours of their life as well as my B & W photos show their souls!! So that I wanna share my experiences of taking those moments of people for lifetime in my camera, in my latest album A Girl With Camera

                                   One of my best picture is of  girl named Meera. A totally western culture girl in traditional Indian society. Meera, she is bold enough to wear shorts and having a tattoo on her waist. She is with her hair colour listening some English rock music and playing with her shades. Stunning with sporty watch and arrogant little with her attitude in this Indian culture. But our locality will never understand a girl. She is open-minded, bold doesn't mean she is a attention seeker. Maybe it is her way to express her emotions-boldly. Don't assume the character from her photos while she was sexy with her flirty acts. She is adorable because truly in front of society. Because she is having and dreaming the whole world honestly. Taking shapes of her is like savouring a life intensely thousands every of a second. Sometimes camera despite hidden phases of a life that our eyes can't see.

                                     Meera is in every city, she has no name, no face. She is just a real character of yourself whom you imagined so far long time ago. Meera is confident and independent girl to liver her life own way, that time she is also fighting with society for her rights. There are so many girls who wants to become a free bird, wants independent thinking instead of rigidly of parents inherited thinking. Our society never free any girl. No one will fight with you. If you haven't decided yet, you  will never got this chance again. That's true that there is no last chance, it is second last or etc... but this is in philosophy.. And remember that philosophy has two sides like a coin. You are whatever for your parents, friends and for outside the world but deeply inside you want to become like anyone else maybe like Meera.

                                       So that Meera is a real character of your imaginary thinking. For her, fighting with society for her rights is spontaneous theory for her. Because she has an attitude of that bluntness. She is independent and many of you also want independence. That most wanting thing in today's youth.

                                       There is only one way, be an open-up. Don't hesitate to run behind your dreams after all its yours, so only you can catch it. If you want to do something then do that damn!!! You are always awesome remember. People will definitely sarcasm on you... It's their work and your work is just buzz off them. Play with that thing in which you are interested. Play a game like never before, life is a game. You may win or you may loose but the only thing you will get surely is that moments of playing the games. If you don't play how can you reach to that end phase of life that may change your game. For me camera is my sketch-book, an instrument of institution, a gadget of my blunt life cycle and a medicine for my short-tempered nature. Find out something which gives you that peace of life. which with you can stay busy and stay happy. You know what? To show the world your courage or your open nature, is not like you are doing show-off. It is a way to show true feelings, true way.

                                        Like someday you want to dance then beat it!! Dance hard, you want to jump jump in, want to cry then cry like never before nut don't forget to smile back. Every wishes every emotions, every phase of your life just enjoy. Don't make yourself down just for shame or fear. I mostly saw the girls, they are so well behaved and obedient for their family but they also wish the openness. Because of society they can't. I just wanna tell that buzz off those people and do what you want to do. Run and catch your dreams. Fulfil your all wishes. The world is only for you, think like that. Run, jump, rise, cry, laugh even fall but don't stop the journey. If you start the journey once, you will surely reach to the destination. But enjoyment is experiencing the journey not that destination. Forget about starting and ending point, sometimes middle thing says more like middle finger. Don't shame to be bad or dirty, that was also one of the phase of life. Anger, friendship, love, cry, care, all emotions show hard to the world. Don't be so heartless. Make new friends play with them, rust out of them, cry with them and laugh with them as like fall in love once, twice, thrice infinite times after all this is you who want to fall in love with someone, with friend, with nature, with a guy/lady, with your favourite fantasy, with yourself. Yes, love yourself the most, it doesn't mean that you are self-centred person or selfish it means that you are in love with everybody, with everything. If you are hurt ed being like kid. The soul is healed only by being with children or behave like little kiddo!!!So this world is for you, with you be open-up. Share, feel and enjoy little and each things. It takes a lot of courage to show your dreams to someone else. But still catch them and you have to if you love yourself, if you love that person who loves you. Try to be like Meera, fully open, make her your inspiration. But remember one thing whatever you are, you are awesome. You are awesome in each memory awesome in every photo. Be a person with the dreams. Its all yours because you are awesome!!!

-Kemil Ghoghari

Yaarana

FRIENDS..

Childhood friends who used to share their toys, candies, sweetness!! Then School friends with whom we  used to finish our homework, they are our recess partners  by sharing their Tiffin boxes.. They don’t go to teacher for our silly complaints.. They are our dance partner to our playground partner.. Friendship is all about sharing.. Some of them are used to fight with you.. They are our fighting partner.. Some of them are Compass box partners.. All the time they lost their pen, pencil or eraser and used ours.. Shamelessly later the all stuff is like their Father's properties and used it. Some friendship starer here is like "Harry Potter" trio.. Long last.. Ever and forever!!! Some of them are disappear from our life like Elizabeth and Will Turner from Captain Jack Sparrow's life!! Some of them are still together but it seem like eating PaniPuri no matter how worst it is.. I am eating it because I love it..!!

Sometimes later, at college days, when we live in a state of blissful ignorance, or rather, fool’s paradise.

Friends for treat, fun and vellagiri.. Some friends for last day assignment work.. Room sharing to bike pooling..!! Sharing a cigarette to last piece of wafer or going for a picnic or movie or long drive 3 at the morning just to fill the drizzly-vizzy. Testing new food on the "Lari" is main time pass with Friends. Height of craziness is one will order, rest of them finished it shamelessly and the third one will pay the bill.!! This is what friends do!! Testing a "Bacardi" to eating medicine they will be always with you. Bunking class just to see your favorite movie in the friend's little dirty room thousands of time is what friends are used to do. Making Maggi and eating from the same dish but later you can't imagine how dirty your kitchen will be..!!  They will sat next to you and clicking your most weird faces that's not enough upload it on Facebook and later tag you like unknown..!! Teasing you with the peak of nonsense jokes and shipping you with your fantasy are their main time pass.. For a friend you are the only chef no matter how worst you cook, you are the only Dr. when one is feeling ill, you are the only photographer to take his/her selfie everywhere, you are the only portable ATM  and if you are the only person in the world they will still fight with you.  They can slap you, irritate you, getting burst out on you  but at the last they love you more than your lover, care for you more than your parents, fight with you more than your sisters/brothers and know you more than you.

At the end we all have some memories .. Spicy, sweet, strong or some of them are lost!! Unfortunately we don't have a memory basin which Dumbledore has!!

Friendship is remembering you today while writing this article, eating your favorite dish and seeing your favorite movie.. Friendship is like Sumrit Sahi's "Just friends" to Sir Arthur Conon Doyle's "Sherlock Holmes and James Watson". It is hidden crush like "Kuchh Kuchh Hota He" to best enemy like "Sadda Hauq" Friendship is tends to some most interesting dialogues like "After all this time Severus!!?? ALWAYS"(Harry Potter) , "Dosti ka ak asul he madam: No sorry no thank you"(Maine Pyar Kiya), "Agar who meri sabse achhi dost nahi ban sakti to me usasse pyar kar hi nahi sakta"(KKHH) and all time favorite "We are Just friends Yaaar".. !!

Friendship  is all about you my dear friends, After all this time.. Love you and Miss you ALWAYS !!

5 months of young age

Completed 10 months of Young age..

Originally written (July 13 2014)

Some orthodox but not authentic always irritates me.. Why this can’t happen or why the hell you are not behaving as I imagined you..!! Friends, cousins always remembering me my recent most energetic life of starting of my youth... But now for some of my friends the scenario is changed. The life which was once they used to celebrate as well as freely hook up with friends changed to being a “Mingle”..!!! Fall in love in teenage made them so easy with relationships that patch ups and break ups are like usual in backlog in engineering. This is not like “Its over” they will still sticking there and just carelessly watch their Exes.. I am careless, I am blunt with my own life but I am at least not self-centered.!! Yes I am all like other girls waiting hoping and looking for my Mr. Right... I read somewhere that we will get someone special who we deserve rightly. We always have imagined someone in our dreams of night... After all one said that “I am not single but dam yeah I am night watcher..” Hrithik type body and men like romantic Raj of DDLJ. Always we want what we watch what we heard!! We all are passing from this phase I am not writing a stereotype note for this but the point is when it comes to date someone, to being a one with whom you love is not that of easy..!! just to show off front of your friends, don’t make you any mistake because after you all hurt by your loved one is bring you to the phase from where you will never ever trust anyone..!!

Some of my friends are from orthodox culture.. And age of 21 they start searching their Mr. Right. Going into a room of full of strangers just because they can judge you well?? Oh creepy hell… For me I am enjoying best at the stage of "just started my young life". It’s just a few months of completing my teenage. And no such planning to be with someone for the rest of whole life. I am not giving a stereotype general answer to my parents whenever they start discussing about my marriage with me. “Dad, I want to focus on my carrier rather than my personal life” Nah.. Dad actually I want to stay Ms. Ghoghari till I am seriously satisfied about my young life. I mean what a sticky things to tell a single details about what I am doing to someone and expecting the same!! I am happy with my best friends with my “single life” rather than a relationship with attraction..!!!!

                                         -Kemil Ghoghari